Despite what some of my reviewers think, I've never been a straight man writing gay characters. I'm going to digress here, and say that nothing would be wrong with that; straight men and straight woman are free to write gay characters any damned time they wish. I wish more of them would.
But I am not, nor have I ever been, straight.
I identified for many years as gay. Then I met a woman, married, and identified as Bisexual. And now I'm getting divorced, partly because I realized that the...